College
Application Essay
Matthew Jeff Terry
December 2000
Gazing at the glass
statue that gleams back at me from my bookcase I reflect on the memories of my
journey over the past two years. Yesterday I addressed the United Nations in New
York when I received the Andre Sobel Award for ‘courage in the face of
adversity.’ I found myself in front of more than a hundred important people
including ambassadors from foreign countries and presidents of prominent
organizations. When I took the podium, the audience listened attentively to what
sounded to them as “powerful words”-- words to me that were just spoken from
my heart. Now, looking at the award situated on my top shelf I come to realize
that this honor is recognition for both what I have begun and so much more that
I want to accomplish.
When I look in the
mirror all I see is a tall, skinny 17 year old. The reaction that I received
yesterday is helping me to recognize the aspects of my individuality that cannot
be revealed in a reflection. The vibrant fire of my character shines through in
my words. It astounds me that I am able to move people with my desire to live as
well as my drive to help others overcome the disease that has had such a
profound effect on my life. In March of 1999 I was first diagnosed with advanced
Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. Having no idea how sick and debilitated the chemotherapy
and radiation treatments would make me, I decided to go to school through the
first rounds of therapy. Through those months I struggled through nausea and
weakness to finish my course work and keep up my high academic standards. My
bald head and frail figure set me apart, but I wasn’t ashamed of showing other
students my body as a constant reminder of the work that I was doing outside of
school to stay alive. After eight months of treatment I was announced in
clinical remission.
An acute relapse in
January of 2000 pulled me out of school and forced me to focus full time on
survival. To treat the very serious recurrence, I endured over half a year of
intense chemotherapy followed by a stem cell transplant. In those months it was
a rare occasion that I left my house or even my bed for that matter. While my
friends were going off to formal dances and basketball games I was sitting at
home waiting for the anti-nausea medication to kick in. The reaction of my
friends to the seriousness of my illness left me practically in solitude in the
months that I was in such drastic need of guidance and support.
The Internet became my
primary connection to the outside world. Terrified and isolated by the
seriousness of my illness, in my darkest hours I set up a web site in hopes of
connecting with other patients. Appreciative of the people that I had connected
with online, I was influenced to evolve my website farther as a resource to the
community. My site, CureHodgkins.com, contains valuable resources and
information for patients and their families and supports them with stories of
hope and survival.
I used my brief talk
at the UN to express how my survival has manifested a personal desire to help
others. I want to see an international network created to provide emotional
support from cancer survivors to patients and a link among loved ones of those
battling cancer in desperate need of answers and encouragement.
As a cancer survivor,
I have no certainty where life will bring me, whether to the UN or back to the
chemotherapy bed. I have been told that my chances of life are small, but that
fire of ambition inside me hasn’t burnt out.
My struggle with cancer has made me realize the importance of my time on
earth, and the power I have as an individual to positively affect lives.